Dream small. Dream big. Just dream.
Life can feel like an endless to-do list. Between errands, chasing kids around, demanding work schedules, and maintaining a household, it’s easy to let your relationship take a backseat. Date nights might occasionally break up the routine, but lasting relationships require something deeper—a long-term glue that holds you together beyond just the next evening out.
What if that glue is your shared dreams?
Think about the memorable movie “Up,” where the dream of a trip to Paradise Falls becomes a symbol of love and adventure. Just like that sweet fictional couple, each of you probably has dreams or aspirations you’ve quietly tucked away, waiting for “the right time.” But here’s the secret: the right time is now.
When you carve out intentional moments to sit down together—without distractions, screens off, favorite beverages in hand—you can discover incredible insights into your partner’s hopes and aspirations. Conversations about your five-year or ten-year visions, even retirement dreams, can open doors to deeper connection and understanding.
When you dream together, you build a life that’s richer and more fulfilling than either of you could achieve alone. A strong “we” is almost always greater than “me.”
Pro Tip! Four Ways to Support Each Other’s Dreams:
- Financially: Support your partner’s dreams by planning and managing resources together.
- Emotionally: Be encouraging during their successes and a steady presence through challenges.
- Logistically: Help manage daily responsibilities, giving your partner space to focus on their goals.
- By Participating: Join your partner in their passions, creating memorable, shared experiences that strengthen your bond.
Your relationship thrives when you intentionally dream together and actively support each other’s journeys.
